For those of us who preach, one of the more difficult aspects of our ministry, is knowing how to properly respond to those who say or do things that hurt us. There are times no doubt, when this is unintentional, but there are also times when this happens intentionally.
We’ve all heard them. “You are a good preacher, but I really loved our last preacher.” “What do you do with all of your spare time during the week?” “You are a lot better Bible class teacher than you are a preacher.” “I imagine that you were a lot more effective as a preacher when you were younger!” “How can your family afford a new car on a preacher’s salary?” “I know you don’t have much to do during the week, so could you help me with _______?” I’m sure you can add things that you’ve heard from others, ad nauseum.
The Sacred text says, “Then Daniel replied with discretion and discernment…” (Daniel 2:14) The King had become indignant and extremely furious. In his anger, he made rash decisions that caused many to lose their lives.
Surely, it still happens. Some people, leaders, family members, and friends make sudden decisions that bring pain to us or those we love. How we respond will to a large degree determine our ability to live and faithfully serve the Lord as well as His people.
The King was wrong; Daniel was right, yet he didn’t respond in anger or arrogance. He responded with wisdom and tact.
The fact is, we will be disappointed, we will be wronged, and we will hurt. We can lash out, fight back, stand up for ourselves, give people what they deserve, let them have it, and prove our point.
Or, we can respond with discretion and discernment. Thank you brothers, for the difference you will make in the world, in families, and in the church as you respond to those around you this week with the grace and wisdom of the Lord. (1 Peter 2:21-23)
